Saturday, November 30, 2013
Friday, November 29, 2013
The Joys and Eyebrow Raisers of a Hospitable Septuagenarian
What a Thanksgiving week it has been, so far!
Early in the week I went shopping for a big turkey and some goes-with-its, in anticipation of our annual Thanksgiving gathering. This year we had invited back Alex Mican and Titiana Morariu, plus Titiana's Colombian roommate, Natalie, who shares an apartment in Revere, Massachusetts, just a bit north of Boston.
Hence, I straightened up the two guest rooms on the second floor (etaj unu) at Hotel New Hampshire, putting clean sheets on both their queen-sized beds, vacuuming, setting window shades, etc. I can be quite the innkeeper for such occasions! Shirl, my beloved wife, tolerates my congenital hospitality, but rarely sees it as her job to help with the physical preparations. (Shirl does her part in the kitchen, by keeping us all laughing.)
On Wednesday, I drove to Revere and met the young ladies at their brand new apartment complex. I was a bit early, and I had forgotten to bring my cell phone, but fortunately, I remembered their address and room number, so I was waiting in the hall for them to get home from their office in Boston (both work at the same company). As I waited, I met six or seven dogs. It seems that this building is known as "The Dog House," the only one in the complex that allows pets. And at about 4:30 on the day before Thanksgiving, everyone was arriving home from work, and taking his or her dog out for a "walk." Fortunately, I love dogs, so was not intimidated, and fortunately, none of the dogs saw this stranger as a threat to home and family, so none raised a ruckus over my being there.
After about a half-hour's wait, Titiana and Natty arrived, and shortly we were headed north, singing Christmas carols as we rode. It turned out that Natty is the daughter of a choir director in Cartagena, and that she has a beautiful clear voice, perfect pitch, and knows many traditional carols in English!
On the way home, we stopped in Saugus at Kowloon Restaurant and ate, bringing home at about 7:30, some Chinese food for Shirl, Alex McD. and Dani Rusu. As it turned out, Dani was the only one interested in it, though there ensued a party in the kitchen once Alex Mican, Septi and his friend Iulia arrived. It was quite a raucous event, with decorum thrown to the winds, and bawdy stories told in two languages. Dare I admit that a bit of beer flowed, as well?
Then, about 10:30, the young folks all took off for Waterville Valley, and the Silver Fox Inn, which Alex Mican helps to manage, and where we had planned to have our Thanksgiving Dinner.
The next morning, Dani dropped Titiana and Natty off, then headed out to go shopping. The girls reported that they had not slept. Somehow, they managed to stay up and keep me company and I made a bread stuffing, and prepared to roast our turkey for that evening's meal. Then, we watched a movie and a half, as the wonderful aroma of roasting turkey slowly spread through all of HNH. Natty, not surprisingly, fell asleep in from of the TV, and missed the second film. But Titiana stuck it out.
Then, last night, we had our feast. It was great! Among the biggest hits was the mincemeat pie that Titiana had prepared that afternoon.
Of course, on the ride home from the valley, my Santa Fe carried only the three McDougalls. The Romanians and the Colombiana all stayed to continue their party for a second night.

What do young people do at such parties? Hmmm?
And, please remind me why I made beds for our guests?
One eyebrow rises as I ask myself that!
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Aw, shucks! Dani just came into the kitchen! He tells me he brought two pretty, but tired young ladies home at about 1:00 A.M. That changes the story! (I am sure glad that I made those beds!)
| Roxana, Natalie, Titiana, Iulia, and Shirl. |
Hence, I straightened up the two guest rooms on the second floor (etaj unu) at Hotel New Hampshire, putting clean sheets on both their queen-sized beds, vacuuming, setting window shades, etc. I can be quite the innkeeper for such occasions! Shirl, my beloved wife, tolerates my congenital hospitality, but rarely sees it as her job to help with the physical preparations. (Shirl does her part in the kitchen, by keeping us all laughing.)
On Wednesday, I drove to Revere and met the young ladies at their brand new apartment complex. I was a bit early, and I had forgotten to bring my cell phone, but fortunately, I remembered their address and room number, so I was waiting in the hall for them to get home from their office in Boston (both work at the same company). As I waited, I met six or seven dogs. It seems that this building is known as "The Dog House," the only one in the complex that allows pets. And at about 4:30 on the day before Thanksgiving, everyone was arriving home from work, and taking his or her dog out for a "walk." Fortunately, I love dogs, so was not intimidated, and fortunately, none of the dogs saw this stranger as a threat to home and family, so none raised a ruckus over my being there.
After about a half-hour's wait, Titiana and Natty arrived, and shortly we were headed north, singing Christmas carols as we rode. It turned out that Natty is the daughter of a choir director in Cartagena, and that she has a beautiful clear voice, perfect pitch, and knows many traditional carols in English!
On the way home, we stopped in Saugus at Kowloon Restaurant and ate, bringing home at about 7:30, some Chinese food for Shirl, Alex McD. and Dani Rusu. As it turned out, Dani was the only one interested in it, though there ensued a party in the kitchen once Alex Mican, Septi and his friend Iulia arrived. It was quite a raucous event, with decorum thrown to the winds, and bawdy stories told in two languages. Dare I admit that a bit of beer flowed, as well?
Then, about 10:30, the young folks all took off for Waterville Valley, and the Silver Fox Inn, which Alex Mican helps to manage, and where we had planned to have our Thanksgiving Dinner.
The next morning, Dani dropped Titiana and Natty off, then headed out to go shopping. The girls reported that they had not slept. Somehow, they managed to stay up and keep me company and I made a bread stuffing, and prepared to roast our turkey for that evening's meal. Then, we watched a movie and a half, as the wonderful aroma of roasting turkey slowly spread through all of HNH. Natty, not surprisingly, fell asleep in from of the TV, and missed the second film. But Titiana stuck it out.
| Dani, Iulia, Alex McD., Alex Mican, Roxana (standing), Titiana and Natalie |
Of course, on the ride home from the valley, my Santa Fe carried only the three McDougalls. The Romanians and the Colombiana all stayed to continue their party for a second night.
What do young people do at such parties? Hmmm?
And, please remind me why I made beds for our guests?
One eyebrow rises as I ask myself that!
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Aw, shucks! Dani just came into the kitchen! He tells me he brought two pretty, but tired young ladies home at about 1:00 A.M. That changes the story! (I am sure glad that I made those beds!)
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
De ce nu te place curcan?
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| Photo: Timisoara_Zoological_Garden_and_Szeged_ZOO |
Curcan (kur-kaan') means turkey in Romanian.
Chickens are everywhere in Romania. One sees them in all villages, as many homeowners keep them for eggs and for meat, which in part explains why virtually all Romanian village yards are fenced. But curcani are less common. They are definitely not a regular part of Romanian cuisine. One does not order a hot turkey sandwich at a diner there, as one might here in the States, and I doubt that the turkey club sandwich will be popular there until golf becomes so.
This year we are having Thanksgiving dinner at the Silver Fox Inn in Waterville Valley, New Hampshire, hosted by MICAN Alexandru (din Bistrița), whom we have known (as an adopted nephew) for the past five years. Alexandru is now working as a manager at that resort hotel, and has invited us to use its spacious dining room. Many of our friends from last year's Thanksgiving celebration will be joining us there, including native Romanians Roxana (din Brașov), Titiana Morariu (din Sebeș), and Daniel Rusu (din Cluj), along with Shirley, me, and our son Alex. Tomorrow I will be driving down to Revere, Massachusetts, to pick up Titiana and her roommate Natalie Avilán (de Colombia). We will be thinking also of our recent visitors from Romania, Monica and Alexandra, both of whom we will miss at this year's celebration.
I am thankful to God for all of my friends and relatives, students and acquaintances, colleagues and fellow bikers. I am thankful for my family, and for my health. I am thankful for happiness.
To curcan-lovers and turkey-shunners everywhere, I wish you all a
Happy Thanksgiving!
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Sorta For Sale
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| Click picture to see full view. |
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
A True St. Louis Cardinals Story
The full-page ad above appeared in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch (Thanks, Charles!) last weekend, after the Red Sox had beaten the Cardinals in Major League Baseball's 2013 World Series. I loved this ad for its obvious good sportsmanship, and also because it reminded me of two other life experiences.
The first was in 1961, as we on the New Trier Swim Team were about to swim against Evanston, our arch-rivals. Our coach, Dave Robertson, in his characteristic soft-spoken way, told us, "It is easy to be a good winner, but it's hard to be a good loser. So, today, let's do the easy thing." (We won the meet.)
The second was in 2005. I was riding Rocinante west to California, to my brother Bob's house. (Shirl would later fly to Burbank, then we'd ride together on a two-week motorcycle tour of California and western Nevada.) As I headed across Missouri on I-70, I was following a maroon station wagon with a St. Louis Cardinals sticker on the rear window. Both the car and I pulled off at a service area, and parked. As I was following the woman and her two children into the restaurant, I called to her.
"Excuse me, Ma'am, May I ask you a question about the Cardinals sticker on your car?"
"Sure," she said, "what do you want to know?"
"Well, I grew up in Chicago, and I was a Cubs fan, but I have always been curious," I asked, "how far across Missouri one must drive before he stops meeting Cardinals fans, and starts to meet Kansas City Royals fans?"
"Denver," she replied.
Labels:
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New Trier,
New Trier Swimming,
Red Sox,
Royals,
World Series
Thursday, October 31, 2013
My Son the Farmer
The farm that Jesse McDougall and Cally Wheeler McDougall are operating is a boarding horse farm in Vermont. Its premises include their family's farmhouse, barns and stables, as well as a veterinarian's office, paddocks and dressage rings. They farm many acres of fields where they grow hay for the horses, and a bit of fruit and vegetables for their own consumption. Last Sunday, I captured these scenes of the farm and of some of its residents and tenants.
| Jesse and Cally |
| "Follow me and I'll show you around." |
| Nosing his blanket on a chilly October day |
| Most paddocks corral one horse. |
| Dinnertime. |
| The mustang. |
| Not a bad place, is it? |
| "The kids" out by the customers' horse trailers. |
| Indoor riding ring in "the new barn." |
| Hayfield equipment. |
| The biggest tractor, a John Deere 6310. |
| And the smallest, a Ford 1310 (Nu Dacia? Nu!) |
| Outdoor riding/training ring, with paint dating from the 1970s. |
| The "New Barn" |
| Pretty girl! |
| Walking back toward the farmhouse. |
| Farmhouse, old barn, and silos. |
| Godspeed to the young couple. |
| My son the farmer. |
Labels:
Cally Wheeler,
Farmer,
Horse Farm,
Jesse McDougall,
Pullman Farm,
Shaftsbury,
Vermont Farm
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
The Manure Spreader
On Sunday, 27 October, in order to justify a road trip, I used the excuse of transporting my son Jesse's 1978 Suzuki GS550 from our barn in Campton to his home in Vermont. I hooked up my trailer to the Santa Fe, loaded the bike onto it, and towed it over the mountain to Lebanon, NH, across the Connecticut River and over the Green Mountains to the southwest corner of Vermont. There, we unloaded the graceful old Suzuki at the Pullman Farm in the Town of Shaftsbury.
Jesse and Cally, our son and daughter-in-law were married here in 2012. They now operate the farm, following the tragic death of Cally's aunt Edie. Edie's sister Candace (Pullman) Wheeler, Cally's mother, was also present this weekend. Candy is an expert in the kitchen, so happily cooked us a farm dinner of roast chicken, string beans, acorn squash, and mixed salad, with apple crisp for dessert. Yum!
After unloading the bike and stowing it in the garage, I asked Jesse to tell me the full story of his manure spreading adventure (described in the e-mails in my previous post). He started me off at the dung heap. You'll note that it is empty in the photo at the right. That is because he had loaded tons of horseshit into the farm's manure spreader a week earlier, on the 19th, only to have that machine break on his first spreading run.
It seems that a sizable boulder had been buried in the manure pile, which during the loading had found its way into the spreader. The boulder had jammed the spreader, and broken its drive chain. While he was removing the boulder from the jammed rotating parts of the spreader, the boulder fell onto the toes of Jesse's right foot. Luckily and wisely, Jess was wearing his steel-toed boots, and suffered no injury.
It took the rest of the day on the 19th for Jesse to repair the (fully loaded) manure spreader. But, he got it fixed, and spent a peaceful 35th birthday (on the 20th), fertilizing some of the many large hay fields at the farm.
We walked out to the "new barn," where I viewed all five of the farm's tractors, this one being the oldest. It had belonged to Cally's great-grandfather.
This farm is a boarding facility for the horses of others who live in the southwest corner of Vermont. It houses many horses, and has large paddocks and multiple stables, as well as both indoor and outdoor training rings for the equestrians. My next post will include some snapshots of a few of the horses, and facilities that they enjoy: Here is a recent arrival:
The Brick Farm was an old name for the Pullman farmhouse. It was built in 1800, and is reputed to be the birthplace of the man who later (while living in Wisconsin) was credited as being the founder of The Republican Party of the United States. Its architecture is graceful, solid, and definitely "of the period." As Jesse described it, "Every hallway a bedroom, every bedroom a hallway."
At the invitation of Candace to stay for dinner, and of Jesse and Cally to spend the night, I stayed Sunday night at the farm. We'll be going back for a baby shower in November, for Cally is expecting in January.
Jesse and Cally, our son and daughter-in-law were married here in 2012. They now operate the farm, following the tragic death of Cally's aunt Edie. Edie's sister Candace (Pullman) Wheeler, Cally's mother, was also present this weekend. Candy is an expert in the kitchen, so happily cooked us a farm dinner of roast chicken, string beans, acorn squash, and mixed salad, with apple crisp for dessert. Yum!
| An empty dung heap. |
It seems that a sizable boulder had been buried in the manure pile, which during the loading had found its way into the spreader. The boulder had jammed the spreader, and broken its drive chain. While he was removing the boulder from the jammed rotating parts of the spreader, the boulder fell onto the toes of Jesse's right foot. Luckily and wisely, Jess was wearing his steel-toed boots, and suffered no injury.
| Jesse points to where the rock jammed the spreader's "throwers." |
| Note the bent tines on the leftmost thrower. |
| Here is where the drive chain snapped. |
| These bars are dragged by the chain along beneath the load, moving it to the rear of the machine, where the spinning throwers distribute it onto the hayfields. |
We walked out to the "new barn," where I viewed all five of the farm's tractors, this one being the oldest. It had belonged to Cally's great-grandfather.
| "The mustang." A horse bought and brought from out west. Note his brand. |
The Brick Farm was an old name for the Pullman farmhouse. It was built in 1800, and is reputed to be the birthplace of the man who later (while living in Wisconsin) was credited as being the founder of The Republican Party of the United States. Its architecture is graceful, solid, and definitely "of the period." As Jesse described it, "Every hallway a bedroom, every bedroom a hallway."
At the invitation of Candace to stay for dinner, and of Jesse and Cally to spend the night, I stayed Sunday night at the farm. We'll be going back for a baby shower in November, for Cally is expecting in January.
| The happy farmers, parents-to-be. |
| Old feller, settin' a spell by the farm gate. |
Labels:
Manure,
Pullman Farm,
Spreader,
Suzuki GS550,
Vermont,
Vermont Farm
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